Relationship Reflection

Relationships are very important to my existence.  Strong family relationships have molded me and allowed me to possess positive outlook on life.  These relationships have cultivated in me a culture of honoring family and family experiences which have been a huge part of my existence.  I am blessed to have both of my parents alive; some persons lost their parents at a tender age. My parents are very active as such they continue to contribute to society.  Five children emerged from the union; they have played a huge part in our development – four boys and one girl.  My brothers are all married and so we reunite for special occasions such as Christmas, Easter, at times for birthdays and other family moments. 

My brothers are close to me but my third brother – Gladwyn is considered my favorite brother.  I think his name says it all and he tells everyone that he is always glad as such he possesses that effervescent personality which becomes contagious wherever he goes. We share a beautiful connection as siblings and as such we advise each other on a wide range of issues. In the picture above, on the extreme right is my cousin, next to him my mother, then my brother Cleve who is a doctor in the U.S, and some of the family members were there for his wedding, then my brother Gladwyn followed my brother Seymour then me.

My niece Keona  is very close to me. The bond that was fostered from the moment she was a baby to this present time is very deep.  Besides being her aunt and godmother, I have also played a great part in her academic achievements.  Quite recently, I was doing something in my room and she needed my assistance so I heard her saying, “Time is of essence”.  I was most surprised because she is only 7 years.  I asked her where she got that quote from and she was quick to mention, “Auntie you always tell me time is of essence!”  I did not even recall that but it tells us how children are paying attention to what we as adults share with them.

My friend Yolanda is also very special.  I met her in 1991 when I took up my first teaching assignment.   She was very supportive to me, having entered the profession with very little experience she played a large part in mentoring me and ensuring that my experiences were quite rewarding.  Over the years, that relationship is alive and well.   I smile at times when I think of the length of time we have been friends and how we continue to keep in touch with each other and share gifts with each other.  It is amazing!

My roommate from college (Alicia) and I also share strong friendship.  We barely knew each other when we decided to share an apartment together but over time that relationship grew.  However, there were moments which created a bit of discomfort like when we had to prepare meals. Just when it was becoming a bit unbearable for me, my brother came to Trinidad so I ended up sharing an apartment with him and at the same time she got married and relocated to her in-laws’ resident.  I think that was the break needed in order to sustain that relationship.  We are great friends still and continue to communicate with each other and share family moments as well.